Why women want to date

 Why women want to date

It is surprising but true. The number of single women over 45 is increasing and it has reached the highest number ever. The most recent population surveys indicate that there is somebody turning 50 every 8 seconds of which over 50% is female. This has also got to do with the fact that the population is ageing. Some also feel that it is quite a tough task for somebody over 45 after a long period of marriage to start dating and some may even back out wondering the utility and goal of it all.

Interestingly, in a survey in 2003, they discovered that people wanted to date primarily to talk to someone or to share things with that person. This was the view of over 50% of the participants.Of course, not everybody thought so. One of them felt that besides talking and sharing things, sexual attraction was also one key factor as to why women would want to date, the reasoning being for the former two activities, one could always find women. Need to have fun and enjoy, find somebody to marry again and also rekindle the need for sex were other causes that was highlighted in the survey. It is of utmost importance to have a clear perception and understanding of why you need to look for a date and this perception is useful to prevent wastage of time and effort in looking for an affair that is in divergence to your objective.

Other factors or incentives to be considered include whether the association is a short term one with no sex or with sex or is it a long-term commitment culminating in marriage. You also need to consider whether you require a partner without any strings attached or even a marriage with trust or divested of fidelity. There are many twists and combinations that you need to be clear about before seeking that date.
If you have made up your mind, then you need to be transparent and come out in the open about your expectations from the relationship and you will be surprised at the cooperation you might receive from your partner, who will also feel emboldened to be as honest with you.

Now that you know why you want to date, the timing assumes great importance. Broadly, separation from your partner and your own practical experiences over the years gives you the inspiration and zeal to decide your expectations from a partnership. You can however, keep some of these questions in mind:

  • How is your mental make-up? Can you cope with situations that go out of hand?
  • How good is your self-worth?
  • Are you clear about your choice and would you stick to your decision?

Once you are clear on the above, you can go ahead and start it all over again.

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